Life has different colours and the meaning behind these colours is elusive. But one thing we learn in life is the transient nature of everything whether relations, emotions, success, failure. We gain one thing and thats experience. As kids we enter school with innocence and excitement, humans being sociable make friends. We enjoy, eat and spend time with them. They become part of our life. Well as everything is ephemeral, we get apart due to parents' tranfer. Gradually we forget our childhood friends or has a vague imprint of their presence.
We enter teenage, and our maturity level grow up. We make friends and now categorize friends as good or best or just friends. We make promises of life long friendship. But all goes in vain when distance depart us. We try to keep in touch for 1 year or more, but as the pressure of studies, or new friends demand our presence we forget our old friends. When we are in school, we just wish to get out of here and we forget to enjoy most beautiful time of our lives fully.
We enter college with new zeal and a few school friends. The college atmosphere makes us feel- we are free-no need of that boring uniform, discipline and many other thing. But gradually we realize we were so very wrong!!! In college, we have friends but we cant compare them with our school friends. In school we were closed but here we hang out together. In school, we used to live together, in college we spend time together. But yes as time is the greatest healer. We get accustomed to it. New emotions occur in life, emotions of love. We fall in love, actually this line fall in love is so true. We actually fall in love not rise in love. Mostly, We forget our friends, studies, parents. What matters is HIM. Most of the college affairs get over with our college itself. A few which progress to marriage, Eventually they also lose their lustre with time.
After college, we get into jobs or marriage. In this phase of life, we hardly have true friends. Everybody is busy in their lives. We are living like we have a deadline to meet-job, family, some friends, loans, taxes, bla bla bla....Then responsiblity increases- spouse, kids, parents. In fulfulling all these responsbility, we forget one main responsiblity towards one' self. We dont have time for ourself.
We get old with time. Our kids are busy in their lives. Only one thing which stays is memory. Memory of challenging yet beautiful life. We become senile yet we have a obscure marks of the life. We have lots of time but company......??Always remember:- Today moments become tomorow's memory so live life fully. As today is a gift of god thats why it is called "PRESENT"
We enter teenage, and our maturity level grow up. We make friends and now categorize friends as good or best or just friends. We make promises of life long friendship. But all goes in vain when distance depart us. We try to keep in touch for 1 year or more, but as the pressure of studies, or new friends demand our presence we forget our old friends. When we are in school, we just wish to get out of here and we forget to enjoy most beautiful time of our lives fully.
We enter college with new zeal and a few school friends. The college atmosphere makes us feel- we are free-no need of that boring uniform, discipline and many other thing. But gradually we realize we were so very wrong!!! In college, we have friends but we cant compare them with our school friends. In school we were closed but here we hang out together. In school, we used to live together, in college we spend time together. But yes as time is the greatest healer. We get accustomed to it. New emotions occur in life, emotions of love. We fall in love, actually this line fall in love is so true. We actually fall in love not rise in love. Mostly, We forget our friends, studies, parents. What matters is HIM. Most of the college affairs get over with our college itself. A few which progress to marriage, Eventually they also lose their lustre with time.
After college, we get into jobs or marriage. In this phase of life, we hardly have true friends. Everybody is busy in their lives. We are living like we have a deadline to meet-job, family, some friends, loans, taxes, bla bla bla....Then responsiblity increases- spouse, kids, parents. In fulfulling all these responsbility, we forget one main responsiblity towards one' self. We dont have time for ourself.
We get old with time. Our kids are busy in their lives. Only one thing which stays is memory. Memory of challenging yet beautiful life. We become senile yet we have a obscure marks of the life. We have lots of time but company......??Always remember:- Today moments become tomorow's memory so live life fully. As today is a gift of god thats why it is called "PRESENT"
2 comments:
I don't know from where you get the inspiration to write this post but it is your best post till now... :)
It is so true to live your life in present... & The best Mantra Of Life is to Move On!
Be it any phase of your life.. one thing is sure it wont last for eternity.. & if you are struck
to it then one way or another you are missing the fun of your life in Present...
Great Post once again.
BTW the After College wala part is suppose to be fictitious na??
Thanks a lot arpit. I got the inspiration from my life only. That nothing remains stagnant. to that collge wala part, acc to me nothing in this post is fictitious ofcourse may be hv some exceptions. ....
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