Why love happens???

Well I always used to think that love is a beautiful thing. It is the happiest feeling of life. But I have relised now, it is the most painful feeling as well. It destroys all other relationship specially frndship. Well I m feeling very sorry for one of my friend. When she fell in love first time, it was so painful for her that she decided to never fall in love again. Slowly she got over with it with the help of friends and relations. She made friends. she is very bubbly type and easy going gal so she has lot of friends.

She met with a guy. This guy was different. All other frnds were sweet to her or treated her like a kiddo. But this guy scolded her on her faults, they used to fight a lot, he always tried to correct her to which she has reacted very rudely sometimes which had hurt him a lot. Sometimes she said things which can make u lose ur frnds forever. But he had forgiven her for everything. Guy knew about her past and just wanted her to get over with it. Yet she has created a shield for her heart, but this guy was able to enter in her heart. He became very imp though she realized it late.

One evening stupid love feeling destroyed her second most imp relation with that guy. He fell in love with her. With her, though she was too kiddish, did so many mistakes, always hurt him a lot but then also. Yet she only considered him as a gr8 frnd, besides this she didnt want to lose him. Now he didnt want to stay as he has confessed his feelings. She cant say yes and by saying no he would go. As she was not ready for relationship, she said no. She was left heart broken and crying and missing him. I have seen her very upset, she want to revert back to her stupid and beautiful friendship. Her frndship suffered due to love. They are in same college. Deep down under, she feels everything will be ok !!!!!