Why love happens???

Well I always used to think that love is a beautiful thing. It is the happiest feeling of life. But I have relised now, it is the most painful feeling as well. It destroys all other relationship specially frndship. Well I m feeling very sorry for one of my friend. When she fell in love first time, it was so painful for her that she decided to never fall in love again. Slowly she got over with it with the help of friends and relations. She made friends. she is very bubbly type and easy going gal so she has lot of friends.

She met with a guy. This guy was different. All other frnds were sweet to her or treated her like a kiddo. But this guy scolded her on her faults, they used to fight a lot, he always tried to correct her to which she has reacted very rudely sometimes which had hurt him a lot. Sometimes she said things which can make u lose ur frnds forever. But he had forgiven her for everything. Guy knew about her past and just wanted her to get over with it. Yet she has created a shield for her heart, but this guy was able to enter in her heart. He became very imp though she realized it late.

One evening stupid love feeling destroyed her second most imp relation with that guy. He fell in love with her. With her, though she was too kiddish, did so many mistakes, always hurt him a lot but then also. Yet she only considered him as a gr8 frnd, besides this she didnt want to lose him. Now he didnt want to stay as he has confessed his feelings. She cant say yes and by saying no he would go. As she was not ready for relationship, she said no. She was left heart broken and crying and missing him. I have seen her very upset, she want to revert back to her stupid and beautiful friendship. Her frndship suffered due to love. They are in same college. Deep down under, she feels everything will be ok !!!!!

Live in Present!!!

Life has different colours and the meaning behind these colours is elusive. But one thing we learn in life is the transient nature of everything whether relations, emotions, success, failure. We gain one thing and thats experience. As kids we enter school with innocence and excitement, humans being sociable make friends. We enjoy, eat and spend time with them. They become part of our life. Well as everything is ephemeral, we get apart due to parents' tranfer. Gradually we forget our childhood friends or has a vague imprint of their presence.
We enter teenage, and our maturity level grow up. We make friends and now categorize friends as good or best or just friends. We make promises of life long friendship. But all goes in vain when distance depart us. We try to keep in touch for 1 year or more, but as the pressure of studies, or new friends demand our presence we forget our old friends. When we are in school, we just wish to get out of here and we forget to enjoy most beautiful time of our lives fully.
We enter college with new zeal and a few school friends. The college atmosphere makes us feel- we are free-no need of that boring uniform, discipline and many other thing. But gradually we realize we were so very wrong!!! In college, we have friends but we cant compare them with our school friends. In school we were closed but here we hang out together. In school, we used to live together, in college we spend time together. But yes as time is the greatest healer. We get accustomed to it. New emotions occur in life, emotions of love. We fall in love, actually this line fall in love is so true. We actually fall in love not rise in love. Mostly, We forget our friends, studies, parents. What matters is HIM. Most of the college affairs get over with our college itself. A few which progress to marriage, Eventually they also lose their lustre with time.
After college, we get into jobs or marriage. In this phase of life, we hardly have true friends. Everybody is busy in their lives. We are living like we have a deadline to meet-job, family, some friends, loans, taxes, bla bla bla....Then responsiblity increases- spouse, kids, parents. In fulfulling all these responsbility, we forget one main responsiblity towards one' self. We dont have time for ourself.
We get old with time. Our kids are busy in their lives. Only one thing which stays is memory. Memory of challenging yet beautiful life. We become senile yet we have a obscure marks of the life. We have lots of time but company......??Always remember:- Today moments become tomorow's memory so live life fully. As today is a gift of god thats why it is called "PRESENT"